Q’s from the Pews: What are the 3 ways that a person may be baptized? November 23, 2025

The Church recognizes three ways a person may be baptized: baptism of water, baptism of desire, and baptism of blood. The sacrament of baptism is how we enter the life of Christ and become part of His Mystical Body. Because of its deep spiritual importance, the Church teaches that baptism is essential for our salvation.

Baptism of water is the most familiar form of baptism and includes three key elements: intent, matter, and form. Intent means the person—or the parent, in the case of a young child—wants to receive the sacrament. The one performing the baptism must also intend to offer it as a sacred act. Matter refers to “living water” that flows over the person, symbolizing the new life they are receiving. A simple sprinkle isn’t enough—it must be poured or immersed. Form is the sacred wording given by Christ: “I baptize you in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit” (Matthew 28:19).

For those who are old enough to understand (typically age 7 and up), choosing baptism is a personal and meaningful decision. They begin with a time of preparation—called catechesis—to learn what baptism means and how it will shape their life. This might be a few short sessions for a child, or a more formal process like OCIA for teens and adults.

If someone preparing for baptism dies before receiving it, the Church trusts in God’s mercy and considers them baptized by their desire and faith. Likewise, someone who is martyred for their faith and belief in Jesus is considered to have received baptism of blood, by giving their life in witness to Christ. Send questions to dre@saintcolumbachurch.org